Human Behaviour as a whole is such an interesting and a fascinating subject to study.Being a very good observant,i find it really engaging.Infact it never ceases to amaze me.These are some of my thoughts on the subtleties and nuances of human behaviour,based on my observations and experiences.
Female species are extremely territorial.They gaurd their territory fiercely.They are strongly binded by their habits and they would not take kindly to someone invading their space and questioning their way of functioning, no matter how logical it may seem.Hence,Space is quintessential for the female species.
The onus is on the Male species,to make space available for the both the parties(ie Mother and Wife)concerned.The guy after tying the nuptial knot must master the art of balancing,and here in lies his greatest test.There are many ways to attain this, each being subjective in its own way.
If possible the guy should live independently and not at his parent's place.Its not as if, this is an only option,but if circumstances permit,its worth a try.This does not suggest washing off your parent's responsibilties and living in an insular environment. But,its a rather practical approach.The guy would be giving himself a great opportunity for a relationship to succeed.Its not an easy proposition but its certainly worth a try.In this way,He would be in a better position to give care and love to both his mother and his wife in an equitable and a just manner.
A son's love for his mother his permanent.At the same time,the wife also has her own aspirations and desires,which must be given equal weightage.The key here is an open and a logical mind.The guy should create avenues for the two parties concerned to co exist in a healthy and a peaceful manner.Still the task for the guy is extremely tough.
My second observation might not go down well with many of my female friends.But its just my observation,i might be wrong,and there are exceptions always.
Never ask a female colleague for her opinion on another female colleague,regarding practically anything.If my observation stands correct,very few would give the right answers.They have an uncanny knack of noticing strange things which otherwise a guy would not even dream of.They can completely disbalance the mental faculty of a guy.They may have our best interests but they may not give their best views.Its an arduous task to fathom their real motive.Guys take opinions,but make a decision based solely on your logical thinking.
Human Behaviour is such a vast field.My observations are just a drop in the ocean.Its just my way of looking at things.Comments whether good or bad are most welcome.
Monday, June 9, 2008
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